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Wait for someone kind.

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  Wait for someone respectful, not only in the beginning stages of the relationship when things are bright and beautiful, but also when things get hard. Wait for someone who respects your boundaries and does not force you to do things that you’re not willing or ready to do. Wait for someone who is giving and does not keep count of the good things they do for you. Wait for someone who challenges you mentally. Someone who inspires you to be a better person. Wait for someone who takes their time to learn and understand you. Wait for someone who is consistent with their efforts in showing you how much they care about you. Wait for someone who wants to be part of your world, and wants you to be part of theirs. Wait for someone who lets you know you’re on their mind, someone who checks in on you, someone who wants you to know that they care for you. Wait for someone who is willing to commit to you, someone who is willing to choose you. Wait for someone who makes love feel easy, calm. Like co
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“10 realizations that you have to embrace.

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1. As you get older, you choose the people that you accept in your life. You do not want to waste your energy trying to connect with someone, and it will not prosper into a relationship that is worth keeping.  2. You can't stop people from saying things about you. It is not your responsibility to change their minds. You only have to keep on doing what you do best. For as long as you are not hurting anyone, then there is no need to explain yourself.  3. You don't need so many friends in your life. You only need a few but are genuine with you. You cut off people in your life who do not respect you.  4. You are a work in progress,  so there is no need for you to be hard on yourself. You have to continue learning and embrace that you will never please everyone.  5. Kindness goes a long way. If you have nothing good to say, it is better to keep your opinions to yourself. Allow people to grow and learn from their past mistakes.  6. Those people who know you better will stay with you
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Go forward with determination. Congratulations ..!

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  One graduates in 25 years, but waits years to get a job. Some CEOs die in 25 years, but die in 50 years, while others become CEOs in 50, but live to be 90 years old. Some are still single, but some of their school mates are married and have children. Obama retired at 55, but Trump began at 70. Everything happens with an inherited time base. The others who were with him at this time can be seen to be far ahead of themselves. We can feel like we're a little down. But everyone runs on their own track, as they feel, with their own timelines. Never be jealous of them. Do not underestimate themselves. They are in their time zone, we are in our time zone. So relax. It's not too late .. There is enough time .. Go forward with determination. Congratulations ..!
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Does it look like a loving kiss at first glance?

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  He has been raising this cow since he was a child. The cow only feels his love when she raises him. Not his purpose. But the cow does not know that he is raising people to sell their cattle to slaughterers. He sells the cow for the sport and watches the game. The cow is severely injured by the attack of the athlete. People cheer for the player's victory. The helpless cow looks at the spectator and asks for help at the moment of death! She sees the man she raised, running toward the audience, hoping for help. That life begs, the moment of hope. The owner kisses her. At that moment the player gives the final blow to the bull and kills it. That's the nature of the game. The player wins! The owner of the cow accomplishes his purpose. That kiss must have read a lot. Maybe the owner kissed her for the pleasure of receiving the money! This is an event that will be written in black as the most heinous betrayal in human history. There have been many such incidents in our society in th
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I read Maxine Gorky's mother.

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Maxim Gorky's mother read it a long time ago. The Russian Revolution and the Love of the Mother Russian Mother was not the best book for me but a good book. I read the story of our mothers carrying the burden of the earth in Upul Shantha Sannasgala's book Amma. Sannasgala's mother in the Haputale underworld is closer to me than Gorky's Russian mother. Moms are all the same. It is not the mother but the number who sacrifices their life for another without expecting anything in return. As Maxim Gorky once said, this world exists "because of mother's milk and the sun's."Because a mother dedicates her whole life and wholeheartedly without expecting anything in return for the life she gave life to but does not inherit her name. During the revolution, she inherited so much suffering that a woman could not bear to succeed in child exercise. That's why Gorky understood this truth. What? Her mother, of course, because of you. Most mothers in this world are
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valentine's day❤

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  There is a beautiful story hidden in this Valentine's day There is a Christian priest living in Spain called St. Valentine. This priest is very loving and kind ...There is a beautiful story hidden in this Valentine's day. There is a Christian priest living in Spain called St. Valentine. This priest is very loving and kind ... During the priest's lifetime, a Spanish war broke out So the king of that country orders all men to take part in the war. Every man is either a lover or a husband.So they leave their wives and lovers in grief and go to war .So they always ask the king of the country when we will be allowed to go home.So the king of the country decides to ban all men in the country from getting married as this is a big issue and he cannot wage war. At that time the wedding took place in the church as usual So it was up to the former priest of the church to register the marriage.So the king forbade the marriage and registered the marriage as a punishable offense. There
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Let's go to Sembuwatta

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 This is about a wonderful place with a lake in the middle of a pine forest on one side and a tea plantation on the other. That is Sembuwatta located in the Matale District. It can be described as a place that everyone has heard of and a place that many have gone to. First, let's look at how to get here. If you are coming from Kandy you can pass Katugastota and reach Elkaduwa via Wattegama town to Sembuwatta. Or if you are coming from the Matale side you can easily reach Elkaduwa via Ukuwela town and visit this Sembuwatta. During the colonial period the English started cultivating tea in this area. At that time the place where this lake was was used by the whites as their polo stadium. However, those who built a tea factory close to this estate in 1949 have removed the polo stadium and built the Sembuwatta tank there to get the electricity they need. Although it has been 20 years since the roof of the tea factory was built, the Sembuwatta tank still supplies electricity to the esta
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