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Wait for someone kind.

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  Wait for someone respectful, not only in the beginning stages of the relationship when things are bright and beautiful, but also when things get hard. Wait for someone who respects your boundaries and does not force you to do things that you’re not willing or ready to do. Wait for someone who is giving and does not keep count of the good things they do for you. Wait for someone who challenges you mentally. Someone who inspires you to be a better person. Wait for someone who takes their time to learn and understand you. Wait for someone who is consistent with their efforts in showing you how much they care about you. Wait for someone who wants to be part of your world, and wants you to be part of theirs. Wait for someone who lets you know you’re on their mind, someone who checks in on you, someone who wants you to know that they care for you. Wait for someone who is willing to commit to you, someone who is willing to choose you. Wait for someone who makes love feel easy, calm. Lik...

“10 realizations that you have to embrace.

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1. As you get older, you choose the people that you accept in your life. You do not want to waste your energy trying to connect with someone, and it will not prosper into a relationship that is worth keeping.  2. You can't stop people from saying things about you. It is not your responsibility to change their minds. You only have to keep on doing what you do best. For as long as you are not hurting anyone, then there is no need to explain yourself.  3. You don't need so many friends in your life. You only need a few but are genuine with you. You cut off people in your life who do not respect you.  4. You are a work in progress,  so there is no need for you to be hard on yourself. You have to continue learning and embrace that you will never please everyone.  5. Kindness goes a long way. If you have nothing good to say, it is better to keep your opinions to yourself. Allow people to grow and learn from their past mistakes.  6. Those people who know you bette...

Go forward with determination. Congratulations ..!

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  One graduates in 25 years, but waits years to get a job. Some CEOs die in 25 years, but die in 50 years, while others become CEOs in 50, but live to be 90 years old. Some are still single, but some of their school mates are married and have children. Obama retired at 55, but Trump began at 70. Everything happens with an inherited time base. The others who were with him at this time can be seen to be far ahead of themselves. We can feel like we're a little down. But everyone runs on their own track, as they feel, with their own timelines. Never be jealous of them. Do not underestimate themselves. They are in their time zone, we are in our time zone. So relax. It's not too late .. There is enough time .. Go forward with determination. Congratulations ..!

Does it look like a loving kiss at first glance?

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  He has been raising this cow since he was a child. The cow only feels his love when she raises him. Not his purpose. But the cow does not know that he is raising people to sell their cattle to slaughterers. He sells the cow for the sport and watches the game. The cow is severely injured by the attack of the athlete. People cheer for the player's victory. The helpless cow looks at the spectator and asks for help at the moment of death! She sees the man she raised, running toward the audience, hoping for help. That life begs, the moment of hope. The owner kisses her. At that moment the player gives the final blow to the bull and kills it. That's the nature of the game. The player wins! The owner of the cow accomplishes his purpose. That kiss must have read a lot. Maybe the owner kissed her for the pleasure of receiving the money! This is an event that will be written in black as the most heinous betrayal in human history. There have been many such incidents in our society in th...

I read Maxine Gorky's mother.

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Maxim Gorky's mother read it a long time ago. The Russian Revolution and the Love of the Mother Russian Mother was not the best book for me but a good book. I read the story of our mothers carrying the burden of the earth in Upul Shantha Sannasgala's book Amma. Sannasgala's mother in the Haputale underworld is closer to me than Gorky's Russian mother. Moms are all the same. It is not the mother but the number who sacrifices their life for another without expecting anything in return. As Maxim Gorky once said, this world exists "because of mother's milk and the sun's."Because a mother dedicates her whole life and wholeheartedly without expecting anything in return for the life she gave life to but does not inherit her name. During the revolution, she inherited so much suffering that a woman could not bear to succeed in child exercise. That's why Gorky understood this truth. What? Her mother, of course, because of you. Most mothers in this world are ...

valentine's day❤

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  There is a beautiful story hidden in this Valentine's day There is a Christian priest living in Spain called St. Valentine. This priest is very loving and kind ...There is a beautiful story hidden in this Valentine's day. There is a Christian priest living in Spain called St. Valentine. This priest is very loving and kind ... During the priest's lifetime, a Spanish war broke out So the king of that country orders all men to take part in the war. Every man is either a lover or a husband.So they leave their wives and lovers in grief and go to war .So they always ask the king of the country when we will be allowed to go home.So the king of the country decides to ban all men in the country from getting married as this is a big issue and he cannot wage war. At that time the wedding took place in the church as usual So it was up to the former priest of the church to register the marriage.So the king forbade the marriage and registered the marriage as a punishable offense. There...

Let's go to Sembuwatta

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 This is about a wonderful place with a lake in the middle of a pine forest on one side and a tea plantation on the other. That is Sembuwatta located in the Matale District. It can be described as a place that everyone has heard of and a place that many have gone to. First, let's look at how to get here. If you are coming from Kandy you can pass Katugastota and reach Elkaduwa via Wattegama town to Sembuwatta. Or if you are coming from the Matale side you can easily reach Elkaduwa via Ukuwela town and visit this Sembuwatta. During the colonial period the English started cultivating tea in this area. At that time the place where this lake was was used by the whites as their polo stadium. However, those who built a tea factory close to this estate in 1949 have removed the polo stadium and built the Sembuwatta tank there to get the electricity they need. Although it has been 20 years since the roof of the tea factory was built, the Sembuwatta tank still supplies electricity to the esta...

Five movies that you must watch*

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  I thought to share some gorgeous movies which are not much famous but you must watch. They are some movies which were able to remain in my heart forever.   _1.Aamis_  This movie is woven around a little bit disgusting theme which is related to carnivores. This movie mainly flows through a strange relationship between a married middle-aged lady doctor and another young guy. Maybe you have watched this movie because it made a little agitation in Sri Lanka too. I invite the others to watch this but I should say this movie will be little bit difficult to watch for the sensitive people.   _2. village rockstars_  This film was able to represent India in the best international language movie in 91st Academy Awarding Ceremony and also it was able to  become the best movie in 65th Indian state Award ceremony. Do we need any other reasons to watch this movie? A story about a dream of a girl and her friends who live in rural village becomes the theme of th...

Even if the love is lost

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 Being free from mind was never easy .. Still feels the loss of love in the past till today .. one day we might meet without knowing that we are ours.  I have come a long way leaving you. I wanted to see you since that day.  Even my heart troubles to see an image of you. Seconds turns into hours, days,weeks, months and years. Even so we are far apart, love is amazing. I met you again. From that moment on, the mind that had healed for years was returned to the same pain as before ... Today we know the story that was not known before. We had missed ourselves. Time has proved to us that the love that fills the heart does not turn into words. It's not your fault. No one can blame us for our loss. The past has not changed and we cannot return to the present. The are many limits and restrictions. The only thing that could not be done in the end was to take you out of my mind. Throughout the world you may have toiled to find me and I search for you, but the pain of losing must b...

EXAMPLE IS BETTER THAN PRECEPT

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"Example is better than precept" is a well known adage. First let us see the meaning of the words. "example" and "precept". "Example" means "thing characteristic of its kind or illustrating a general rule." "Precept" means "rule or guide especially for conduct." In every field example is better than precept. There is no point of merely telling someone to do something. First of all we should show the person how to do it properly. Then only it will be a fruitful effort. We have seen how the drill-sergeant teaches new recruits their military drill. He first displays the drill. He shows them how to slope arms, present arms and trail arms and so on. Then his pupils watch his movements and try to copy them. Technical education cannot be picked up only from books. The learner has to engage in the craft. He has to go into the carpentry workshop, mill, factory or any other working place and watch and copy trained workmen as t...

Non-acceptable love

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  There is no need for a standard for two minds to unite. Having unrequited love is also pure. There is no standard or non-standard for the premise. It has act with culture and civilization. Culture and civilization can exist without people, but people cannot live without it. In love, no classifications. There are no individual parts to love. There is only love. Where dissatisfaction and uneasyness are mixed, many problems will be created. But in love there is only love coz' which is a human feeling. On the one hand, how miserable is the other person who lives by the non-acceptable relationship when he thinks justly about it?

My lovely work

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 People have different crazy things. There is no medicine to cure some of that madness. Even though there are drugs, it is very difficult to cure that madness. I was addicted to watching cricket matches from the day I was six or four, because all our family members were cricket addictors.  I fell in love with cricket so much that when I went to school I bought a newspaper with the Rs. 20.00 that mom gave me for have some eats. My mother still remembers my behavior on the day of winning the 2014 T20 World Cup with a smile on her face. Cricket taught me to live with hope, to endure defeat, to shed tears when I win .. From number one to zero even in the final, despite losing every match, the love for cricket has never diminished. Victory in a World Cup is not far off again in the midst of our lion flags..we are the lions.

First love

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  As a young man or woman matures over time, the past events of his or her life will be reviewed.  Then they realize what was being done was that there was no such thing as love.Love cannot be measured in proportion to the time you hold hands or caress. Love is an abstract idea as math or music. But the experience is beautiful and Undoubtedly. So, there are very few occasions when a school marriage get ends.  However life gives an indelible memory. Is first love evil? The beginning of any relationship contains a wonderful kind of uncertainty, but when it comes to first love, everything is new. No matter what age, a first romance has an innocent, earnest sense of discovery, exploration, and wonder that truly brings the phrase “head over heels” to life. Tap into that newness, that time in which every little thing means so much more, in your own writing. Every relationship, like every good story, includes conflict. Misunderstandings, mistakes, changing circumstances—the...